I had over 150 words typed up on this topic, but deleted it and have decided to start over.

For me, the concept of blogging has changed so much over time.  My first blog on Live-Journal was more like a diary.  I wrote about anything and everything and put pictures in it to inspire and illustrate my posts.  Then I moved to my own site.  It was a mixture of promotion, story telling (of my life), anecdotes, ranting…everything.  Then I moved back to hosting my blog on wordpress.  As much as I enjoyed having my own domain, my lifestyle doesn’t allow me to pay for it.

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Do I have a fetish?!

First off, I have copy and pasted the definition, according to, below:


1. an object regarded with awe as being the embodiment or habitation of a potent spirit or as having magical potency.

2. any object, idea, etc., eliciting unquestioning reverence, respect, or devotion: to make a fetish of high grades.

3. Psychology. any object or nongenital part of the body that causes a habitual erotic response or fixation.

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Position Is Everything!

One of the things we rarely think about (in my opinion anyway) in this scene is positioning.  In videos we mostly see OTK and bend over something, because you can get good angles with these and they don’t block the bottom at all.  One of my favorites, and I think I speak for most spankees, is OTK.  To be across a strong, male, dominant, lap is a feeling like no other.  Comforting and vulnerable while veiled with a feeling of security.  There is also this feeling of being surrounded, when his arm is wrapped wholly around your waist and you’re pulled into his body tight and close.  You know you’re not going anywhere!

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Into My Headspace

Well, I’ve suffered from severe writers block lately, and although I vowed to myself to get my blog back up and running, it’s been more difficult than I anticipated.  Spanking in my personal private life has been on an abrupt half for the last month and a half – or more – due to our living situation.  With two roommates, one home editing his thesis, the other psychotic, it is difficult to get alone time.  Not to mention Max struggling with work and life and stress.

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